Mediation Services
in London & Kent

020 8315 7460
Mon-Fri: 9.30am - 5pm
Out of hours appointments available

Our Services

South East London Family Mediation Bureau (SELFMB) was one of the first family mediation services
to be set up in the country and it is now one of the foremost providers of family mediation in the UK.

We have an unrivalled depth of knowledge, skill and experience in solving problems and resolving conflict and disputes within families.

All members of our family mediation team are professionally accredited (FMCA) through the Family Mediation Council.

We have our own dedicated mediation premises in a quiet yet central location, with 3 mediation rooms, separate waiting areas, a reception area with additional seating and a back office.

We are able to offer first meeting / MIAMs appointments (for individuals) within 24hours and appointments for mediation meetings (for both parties), within 5 working days.
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Courts recognise that parents are generally best placed to know what is in their children’s interests.

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Divorce & Separation

The mediation Bureau is available to help you reach agreements related to matters about children, finance and property.

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Family Mediation

Family Mediation is a safe and positive way to have difficult conversations within the family, about a wide range of things.

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Conflict Resolution

We are a well-established organisation which has been running an independent service for over 30 years.

Contact us on 020 8315 7460 for a confidential discussion

Our Team

Andrew Sims

Service Manager & FMCA Mediator
Andrew Sims is an accredited Family Mediator and a registered civil and commercial mediator (with the Civil Mediation Council).

Lorraine Bramwell

Joint Professional Practice Consultant
Trained as a mediator in 1995 having already had a number of years professional experience working with people in dispute in a range of situations.

Arthur Charlton

FMCA Mediator
It seems like another lifetime now but the first 25 years of my professional life was as an architect and town planner. But in the early 90s, concerned and fascinated by difficulties we (human beings) have in dealing with conflict.

Guya Jordan

FMCA Mediator
Qualified to consult children in mediation
Guya graduated in Literature and History before completing a Psychology conversion course and undertaking further studies in Psychotherapy.


Contact us on 020 8315 7460 for a confidential discussion to see how we can best help you.

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